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Changing ourselves can often be the crucial moment when we emerge a better person. With all the obvious benefits, like more friends, greater popularity, improved relationships, even a better job. It's all about you. It's entirely up to you. Here are 10 questions to ask yourself if you care about who you are, how you come across to others (including the opposite sex) and where you want to be in, say one year from now.  1. Do I really need to change? Today's generation has taken another level of redefining 'self', or at least that's what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle . 2. What do I really want from life? The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day. Find something that you are good a...

We tend to feel somewhat contented with our lives the way things are, but of course it's hard to think of anything else other than the status quo. Yet I think we all aspire for something deeper and more meaningful. We admire our heroes whether they be of the sports kind or the greats from the past or people who reach the pinnacle of society. So what about you? How can you be better than you are today? We're all bombarded with problems.  Surely it shouldn't even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be.  Our aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream.  They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks… or can they? Often our childhood dreams and activities are a sign of what we can or should become in later years to be successful and happy. Here are 10 questions to ask yourself about becoming that person you would like to be and are meant to be. 1. ...